At our License to Chai (teen education) class on Wednesday night, we discussed the recent controversy regarding the Miami Dolphins, bullying/harassment (and the complexity of the situation), and being a bystander.
For background on this story, and please read this very interesting article and video on What Defines A Real Man In Sports
Ok, now that you have watched the video, and read the article, you can see that there are many issues at play here. They revolve around dominating over the other, meeting violence with violence, and much more.
We see that the sports world is struggling with this issue, but what does our Jewish tradition have to say about what it means to be a 'Man'/'Woman'?
Here is a quote from the Ethics of our Fathers (2:6) that give us some insight:
ובמקום שאין אנשים, השתדל להיות איש In a place where there are no 'men', strive to be a 'man'/'woman'
Seems like a simple quote, but there's more than me…